Find the right way to work with Joe.

Therapy, a six-month program, daily practice in the apps, books and speaking. Each is a way from stuck to steady.

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Therapy with Joe

Individual and couples therapy by secure video, anywhere in Alabama. With insurance, you pay your copay and any deductible; you can also pay yourself.

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The NORM Rhythm Program

Six months for couples who are tired of arguing, but not done with each other. Two levels: the Accelerator ($2,495) and the Intensive ($3,795). Joe takes 10 couples at a time. Pay in full, or over time with Klarna.

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The Pattern Finder (free)

Names the pattern loop you're caught in. On the web, or in the NORM Rhythm app.

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NORM Rhythm

Daily practice: each loop is one turn of a new pattern loop. Free to start.

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Romancier

A daily rhythm for two: dates, rituals and touch points for couples.

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Books

Don't Give Up On Love and Sizzle Mindset.

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Speaking

Born Again Love for churches and communities; The Leadership Load Loop for organizations.

Speaking
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For coaches: NORM Coach

The coaching platform for relational coaches, marriage educators and pastoral counselors, on the same engine.

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Not sure where to start?

Take the free Pattern Finder, or book a free 25-minute call with Joe and find out which way fits.

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Joseph L. Follette, Jr. LMFT

Founder, NeuroSpire Labs & Lifestyle Therapy & Coaching

An ordained minister and licensed marriage and family therapist in practice since 1999, Joseph is the creator of the NORM model — Recognize, Rewire, Reinforce — a framework that turns emotional insight into lasting behavioral change. Through NeuroSpire Labs, he is building technology that makes relational rewiring accessible beyond the therapy room.

Verified by Psychology Today · Licensed by the State of Alabama (L214)
Voted one of the Three Best Rated marriage counselors in Huntsville, AL — five years running